Pain can crucify or crown you...


“Those who do not feel pain seldom think that it is felt.”
Samuel Johnson

 

Pain is a certainty of life, whether that pain is physical or mental. Even though some people can endure the one more than the other, and in varying degrees of intensity, pain will nonetheless always be a part of your life. Thomas Jefferson was of the opinion that the art of life is the art of avoiding pain, and that he/she is the best pilot who steers clearest of the rocks and shoals with which it is beset. True, people mostly steer away from experiencing pain, but you cannot run away from the inevitabilities of life, of which pain is one!

If evil is the root of mystery, then pain is the root of knowledge, said Simone Weil. Pain may, therefore, fulfil the role of enriching your life, by teaching you patience. Strength is usually not because pain doesn’t affect us, we are strong because we endure that pain. Even the Marquis de Sade thought that there is nowhere a more lively sensation than that of pain due to the fact that its impressions are certain and dependable, they never deceive you. In life, however, the same pain that teaches us and that enrich our lives may break another person. It is as the saying goes, the same love that crowns you can also crucify you. Let us draw this to that of pain. If we can make it a point to keep this in mind, knowing that every other person struggles with his/her own kind of pain, then we may just foster more compassion with others.

At times my physical and mental pain
wants to drive me insane…
But in managing it I grow from strength to strength,
on life’s journey, irrespective of its length.




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