Joy - embrace it...


“Our brightest blazes of gladness are commonly kindled by unexpected sparks.”
Samuel Johnson

          Today we touch on yet another one of Han Yu’s seven constituents of our emotional make-up: JOY. What is joy? It is a feeling of great happiness, of great pleasure. In his “Ode to Joy”, Friedrich von Schiller wrote that joy is the beautiful radiance of the gods, the daughter of Elysium (in Greek mythology the home of the blessed after death), whose charms reunite what common use has harshly divided. All men, he wrote, become brothers under her tender wing, and that includes all our sisters as well. 

How beautiful, and how true the ability of joy to reunite humans. As Mark Twain said, grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy, you must have somebody to divide it with. Only in sharing joy can we truly experience its reviving and reuniting capacity. Grief is an integral part of our lives, but we should not be governed by grief. Nonetheless, grief helps us to appreciate joy. How would we have known the existence of joy, if we did not know grief and sadness, and vice-versa? 

It is much better to let joy be our guiding light, the sun of our enlightenment, the fountain to nourish the lives we live. Do not let your joys, like your grief, be silent in nature. Jalaluddin Rumi says that when you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a river of joy. Embrace joy, every day, for there are so many things to be joyful about.

He who binds to himself a joy
Does the winged life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity’s sunrise.
William Blake


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